Facing The Fear Off Failure & Finding Success in 2010
I really love the lifestyle that comes from running Layoff Your Boss Marketing my online business. I get to work from home each day, set my own hours, enjoy abundant income. It’s hard for me to imagine ever going back to work for someone ever again. When I think about income generation, I immediately think of one thing and that is the Internet.
Having the pleasure of running my own business and helping others to learn how to do the same has it’s moments of sadness as well for me.
This sadness he Giants and Finding Success!
comes from the countless numbers of people that come to looking for help and stop short of success when they have to face their Giant that has been a part of their life for way to long.
One of my all time favorite songs is by Casting Crowns called, The Voice Of Truth.
In this song there is a portion of the verses that is all to familiar with to many people that are trying to find the success and greatness in their life that God has created them to live in…
But the giant’s calling out
my name and he laughs at me
Reminding me of all the times
I’ve tried before and failed
The giant keeps on telling me
time and time again
”Boy you’ll never win,
you’ll never win.”
Each time we move forward ready to accomplish wonderful and mighty things we hear our Giant calling out to us once again…
Do you recognize your giant? I bet you do… I bet You recognize everything about him as he taunts you over and over again.
Every time you think your getting someplace he reminds you with and endless pile of bills you can’t pay, your past failures, or an unclear future that seems just to unbearable to face.
What is your giant? Fear, doubt, discouragement, past failures, being demoralized, Overwhelmed, goals not yet realized?
Each time When the Giant roars we begin to fret and waver from the path to success we began to follow. Our confidence becomes diminished and we start to move with a bit of reluctance.
Instead of Courageously facing our Giants and standing strong we begin to focus on our giant and instantly look for ways to cope with our struggles, and we slouch in defeat once again.
So why is it that so few people follow through and find success? Because, often times the kind of support and encouragement they need just isn’t there.
They also focus on past events and experiences and the pains that come along with it. Our mind begins to tell us to move away in order to not experience the same pain it felt from past failures.
This doesn’t have to be you!
What if, starting today, the Giant in your life’ didn’t have the power to stop you anymore?
I could have given up when I first got started and I almost did. I could have said, “it is to hard…” or’ “I can’t!” Oh wait a minute I did say those things. I could have given in to the giant when he kept telling me I was not going to make it before I drowned in the mounting pile of bills piling up or the countless bill collectors calling me asking for money to pay my debts that were a constant reminder that I had none to give them, and I was a failure as the financial provider for my family.
I could have stopped and given in to the giant of fear when I was faced with things I did not understand or know about running an online business. But I didn’t and you don’t need to loose your battle with your giant either.
Here is just a small list of the things that helped me face my Giants and begin running a very successful online business and has allowed me to help a lot of people do the same.
Focus.
Accomplish and Celebrate the small victories.
Keep forward Momentum going at all times.
Doing things in order of their importance.
Good Mental Pictures of what I was pursuing.
Knowing my strengths and weaknesses, and focusing on the strengths and allowing others to take care of the weaknesses that were their strengths.
Positive thinking: The more positive you are, the better your life will be in every area. Physically, emotionally, spiritually, financially, etc…
Replace negative thoughts with positive ones: Such as “I can do it!” instead of “I can’t.”
Doing my best to become a person of value, not a person of success. What is success without instilling value in the lives of someone else along the way. Focus on getting to a point of giving value to others and success will follow.
Asking better questions… Not being afraid of sounding dumb when asking a question
Intelligent self education.
Self Worth: You need to believe in yourself before anyone else will. If you truly believe in yourself then nothing is impossible.
New mindset. You must become a success in your thinking long before you achieve it in your reality. This is the most important single step you will ever take on the road to wealth financial freedom or any success at all. You need to develop an unshakable belief that you can and will achieve your success goals.
Find Mentors… Model success! Learn from the successful. Those you hang around you will become.
Building a team. Put a team in place that will keep you encouraged, give you accountability, that has the strengths that compliment your weaknesses. and someone to celebrate your success with.
The choice is yours. There is hope and help available, all you need to do is choose change. There’s no better time than right now. If you want to learn how to conquer your Giant and take charge of your success my team is here to help!
Face your Giants that are keeping you from the success you deserve…Make it an amzing 2010!
The AutoPilot Wealth Institute Creating your online success with you!
Jeff Wellman
New Years 2010, How to Achieve Success!



